Gifting - The Giving of Pleasure

This is the season for giving. I (Elsbeth) have been reflecting on the meaning and customs of giving in our culture. I experience this time often as a bitter–sweet event. However recently I declared to myself to be joyous, at peace and delighted in gifting without rushing around and hectic moments.

So, when Freddy Zental asked me for private time together – a time when we don’t work or discuss business, a time that is truly for the two of us alone, I accepted with delight. We set aside Saturday morning to create a Healing Ritual together.

As many of you know from working with us in seminars and private programs, feeling connected and intimate originates from a deep listening to oneself and one’s partner. The Healing Rituals we practice and teach allow cultivating that kind of listening. One crucial dimension for this listening is the establishing of the giver and receiver roles.

I prepared myself for the ritual by choosing to be the giver with the intention to support Freddy Zental further in his recovery from surgery. Setting up the room, getting his favorite lotion and crèmes, turning on the heating pad for sustained warmth underneath the sheet (after all we do live in Chicago!) and drawing the shades for soothing light I felt anticipation and joy.

Then Freddy Z arrived and received – so appreciative and open. His body could let go, his energies could flow and his Being dropped into a state of peace and pleasure. It was truly a healing and flowing experience, a re-awakening of his body, heart and spirit.

Yes, this kind of gifting we both treasure. And mutually we agreed to make time for more of these kinds of Holiday presents.

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